Demystifying the Male- 25

If you had to pick what weather to be outside in while having sex, what would it be (rain, snow, blazing hot, something extreme) and why that temp/weather?

Vile: I love sex outside, I find it to be really erotic. The beach at night, with a towel of course. The moon above, the sound of the water, and the chance of someone walking by. Not to mention its somewhat cool at night.

Ramrod: Butt naked, outside in the pouring down rain on a warm summer day.  A warm rain would keep us cool while we are getting busy but not too cold that we wouldn’t want to be completely naked. The odds of people being out in the rain would be less, so you could go to more open places like parks or bike trails with less risk of being caught. You also don’t have to be as quiet cause the rain will muffle sounds and again no one will be out if they can help it. The only other weather situation that has my interest is sex out in a snow storm. This would take a preplanned wardrobe on your part. You would need to have some kind of crotch less leggings on under a skirt for easy access but still keep your legs warm. The turn on for me is the temperature difference between the air and snow to the warmth of your pussy. It would be like playing the hot/cold game but outside in a public place and the fact that I can nail you with all your clothes on is also a huge turn on too.

Jose: I would like it to be 80s with rain because I've never done it in rain and always wanted to. I don’t think the snow will be that fun, but what do I know ha


Preference: water-based or oil-based lubes? For all reasons, slickness, ease of washing off, staying power, etc. 

Vile: If your really into long foreplay, then an oil base lube is the way to go, stays wetter, and slicker a lot longer, it is just real hard to wash off. Water based lube is ok, but when doing anal sex you might have to stop and add more.

Ramrod: I really don’t have a preference on either type of lube since I don’t use them that much, but if I had to pick, I guess the water-based.  It is easier to clean up with a quick shower.

Jose: Idk cuz I never paid attention lmao…I just know that the flavor ones get sticky and I don’t mind the stickiness as long as it gets the job done.


Where are some of the weirdest, funniest, most interesting places you've stashed condoms/lube/etc. in case you needed them? 

Vile: My socks always handy cannot forget them, when I was younger I would put inside my baseball cap.

Ramrod: I have never had to stash condoms or lube since I hardly use either.  As for condoms, I am almost always raw-dogging it.  And as for lube, 99% of the time, what I am poking at is self-lubricating anyway. For the rare instance I would need lube, I just grab it from the toy box in the bedroom.

Jose: I never stashed them away, I had them in a candy jar on my living room stand next to the candy jar. Just call me the candy-man :)
Lea Note: Anyone else singing 'candyman can' in their heads now? You know, from Willy Wonka?

My fearless, mostly permanent men, o' the hour are:

Jose Da Hood from Ellora's Cave and the Cave Chaos Radio. Coordinator of sex toy testing (email him or message him if you want to test items!)


Mr. Vile Woods blogger, Dominant, all around open guy. Check out his blog HERE. Much love to all the women who read Lea's blog.
Vile




Brian Nelson My newest addition. He works for Ellora's Cave as well, but I honestly don't have a clue what he does. :o)


Ramrod Director of Project Management for Ellora's Cave Publishing  If it plugs into a wall, battery operated, needs built, rebuilt, lifted, driven, fixed or figured out... that's me

If you have other questions you'd like to pose, ask your questions by leaving me a comment, shooting me an email or finding me on Facebook or Twitter. I'll make sure your questions are answered. Make sure you come back and visit every Thursday for another installment.

Tattoo Tuesday- Mark Hartman

Please welcome Mark Hartman to Tattoo Tuesday!

4 sentences that sum me up-
I'm a personal trainer who always looks for new challenges. I try not to take life to seriously. I'm a former US Marine who traveled the world. For now I call Chicago home.

Any tattoos that you regret?
Nope. My ink is a part of me. It resembles my past and is a part of me forever. Live life not in regret!

Tattoos addictive?
Not really, some people just find something they like and roll with it. It's more in the personality. I suppose anything could be addictive.

Life plans for future-
Fitness is my life. I've grown up in this industry and will continue to do so. Inspiration is the best form of education. I'm happy being a wellness provider at Ravenswood Health Center here in Chicago. I plan to move forward with my fitness modeling/competing and will pursue new opportunities that this brings to me. Check out the latest at www.HartmanFitness.com.

Something about me that most people don't know-
Well, I like jazz. I even played in the high school band. Seriously though I wasn't a band geek.

Superhero-
Well I'd love to fly! Gummy Bears would be my kryptonite!!

Enjoy reading?
I read up on anything that has to do with exercise, movement science, kinesiology, etc. I enjoy progressing my training style by staying current with the latest in the industry.

Quick Questions:
Bottle or Can: Bottle
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate all the way
Morning or night owl: Morning person
Muscle car or Motorcycle: Motorcycle
Rollercoaster or Bumper cars: Rollercoaster

Facebook-www.facebook.com/mark.hartman.357
Instagram-HartmanFitness
www.HartmanFitness.com
markjhartman@yahoo.com

Scavenger Hunt: A.M. Griffin

Blurb:

The steamy standalone sequel to Dangerously Mine.

Kane Epps divides his life into two distinct parts—before the

alien invasion and after. Before the invasion, he had a pregnant wife and a

high-powered job. After the invasion, he’s left with only himself and his

hatred for all things alien. He channels his bitterness by captaining a vessel

of renegade humans—space pirates who don’t think twice about taking what they

need.

Princess Sa’Mya is on the run. She and a few trusted advisers fled her

home planet, only to be captured by the sexy, dangerous Captain Epps. He claims

to hate aliens but can’t seem to resist touching her or kissing her…everywhere.

As Kane introduces Sa’Mya to ever-increasing, unimaginable realms of pleasure,

the princess becomes determined to earn his trust. She’s used to getting what

she wants. And this time, what she wants is Kane Epps.

This space-opera romance contains male/male sex scenes, girl-on-girl

action, group sex and some good old-fashioned voyeurism.

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Excerpt:
Kane woke with a start.
“Lights on.” Staring up to him were wide-eyed, gold-speckled alien eyes.
Who the fuck is this?
She spoke softly. A lyrical tone caressed his ears with words he couldn’t understand.
The music.
“What the…?” His breath caught in his throat. The words hung heavy in the air. “You’re not Anna,” he whispered.
Smack. The sting of her palm across his cheek crashed him back to reality. The alien watched him in indignant shock.
“What the fuck.” Kane grabbed the intruder’s wrists and pinned them roughly by her shoulders. There was a hint of satisfaction as she squealed. If she smacked him again he would break her slender wrists in half.
“Who the hell are you?” he demanded.
Her hands curled into tight little fists as she slowly squinted until she peered at him through the slits of her eyes. His raised a brow.
Defiant little bitch, huh? 
Her breasts touched his chest with each heavy gasp that she took. His nipples brushed against hers. His cock strained painfully against her, as if it had a mind of its own.
Releasing her, he rolled away. He needed to get off of her as quickly as possible. He had almost…
Remembering his nudity, he abruptly grabbed a fistful of blanket, covering his rudely jutting cock.
The alien squeaked as he yanked the blanket from her. In front of him laid a gorgeous alien. At least she appeared humanoid and wasn’t from a species that was God-awful ugly. That shouldn’t matter, he mentally scolded himself. Alien is alien. No matter what she happened to look like.
She was wearing what appeared to be a ball gown.
Great. JB and Ryan commandeered a bunch of partygoers.
His gaze settled on golden breasts as perfect and round as snow globes. Exposed brown nipples stood erect and swollen. He inwardly groaned.
Her dress had been hiked up to her hips. Her legs were splayed wide and inviting. He had come that close to fucking it. He could even feel her slick juices still coating his dick.
Kane cursed. How long would he have to scrub his dick to get the alien juice off him? His cock should have known it was pressing against alien pussy and should have shown support in the cause by going limp. Hell, it being limp had been the reason for leaving Jess’ cabin. Now, here it was full-on and rock-hard. He’d been mere minutes away from impaling her and she hadn't tried to stop him.
This was probably the guys’ idea of a joke. A very sick joke. He would kill them for sending an alien whore to his bed.
He stalked toward the door, dragging along the blanket. If waking up and finding his dick flush against alien pussy hadn't made him limp, the biting chill of the room definitely should have.
Nope.

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A. M. Griffin is a wife who rarely cooks, mother of three, dog owner (and sometimes dog owned), a daughter, sister, aunt and friend. She's a hard worker whose two favorite outlets are reading and writing. She enjoys reading everything from mystery novels to historical romances and of course fantasy romance. She is a believer in the unbelievable, open to all possibilities from mermaids in our oceans and seas, angels in the skies and intelligent life forms in distant galaxies.

For more information please visit www.amgriffinbooks.com

Links:

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Website: http://www.amgriffinbooks.com/books.html

Demystifying the Male- 24

1. If pulling out actually worked as a birth control method, would you chose that (being able to go bareback but pull out and having to finish outside her body) or condoms? (assume no STD's are involved)

Vile: Skin to skin WOW nothing like it. The heat, the wetness, the feeling is always the same, but I think each time it feels better. While in a long term relationship I do not like using  condoms, like taking a shower with frigging socks on.  I think they mess up the whole intimacy part, in the heat of the moment you have to stop open the fucking package slip it on then resume. It just fucks everything up. The feeling of being together is not the same. Then if you are in a long term the female should either go on birth control, or the male should get his nuts cut. Many men for what ever reason want to put all the responsibility on the female.  Back in the day I was like a little whore dog, if it had a pulse I was hitting it. Things are different today, you cannot go to the docs office and get a shot.  So yes pulling out then finish by jacking me off or the GREAT MOUTH HUG.

Jose: Hell yeah!! Nothing feels better than raw dogging some pussy. Definitely a better feeling than strapped up.

Ramrod: Bareback w/pullout or finish inside using a condom...........Bareback.  I will pull out and hotdog you to the big finish.  I want to feel your pussy, and yah, yah, you don't loose that much sensation with a rubber but it is still a barrier.  There is no direct contact between cock and pussy.  I want to feel you stretching open as the tip of my cock presses against your pussy.  I want to feel your wetness as your pussy inches it's way down the length of my shaft. To feel you stretched around my cock, touching every square inch all at the same time.  I want to feel you gripping me tighter and tighter as you cum harder and harder until you can't squeeze me anymore.  To truly touch you in a place where few have ever been, deeper than most have gone.  

Brian: OK, so if there is no chance of getting an STD and it was a birth control method, yes I would bareback it in a heartbeat. The best feeling is feeling a nice smooth wet pussy engulfing my cock. Nothing else feels the same.

 2. When you're masturbating are you visualizing someone? Imagining you're doing something? We've heard for eternity that men are visually stimulated, so I was just wondering what plays through your mind while you're taking care of yourself.

Vile: All men masturbate yea even me, when Arianna was away it was like tug a war. If I was smart back in the day I would sue Hustler Mag for Carpal tunnel syndrome. I am a visual man be it looking at something, or just closing my eyes I am doing somebody.

Ramrod: I am visually stimulated but once stimulated, I can stare at a blank wall and what I am thinking of will be so strong, it is as if I am watching it with my eyes.  What am I think of you ask.............Pussy!  Eating it, toughing it, smelling it, fucking it.  What triggers it.........anything....everything.... Your outfit, the way your hair is done, something you said, something I read, something I saw (TV, Movie, Magazine) the list goes on and on.  What ever it is, my mind makes a short video fantasy about it.  Even if it came from a picture (Playboy, Internet, Lane Bryant add) my mind makes up a fantasy video about it.  It is usual a 60 second loop that plays over and over in my mind till I get close.  Then it trims down to about a 3 second loop of the best part till I blast off.  I might view it in first person, I might view it in third person, I might not even be a character in it.  It is almost always is something that could happen in reality that in reality will never happen.    

Jose: I watch porn! I can picture something but I need a chick to say it or text it then I be like ok. But most of the time I gotta see something like porn or naked picture atleast. What about ya'll ladies lol (might need to be in the next round to the girls)

Brian: If I have no porn to watch to masturbate too then, yes, I visualize what I need to get hard and to get off. Now as I am a lil older I don't do that a whole lot anymore, but in the day man it didn't take much to wanna beat off. Stiff wind? I'm like OK time to go.
3. If a woman is whispering dirty things in your ear is the words, the tone, the warm breath skating over your skin or something completely different that turns you on?

Vile: Nothing like the words FUCK ME Wow. So if I am hitting it and your tired whisper in my ear FUCK ME and I am done. FUCK ME DADDY my nuts explode I shake all over Like a kid locked in a cake factory.

Ramrod: It is a combination thing, choice words, tone you speak in, feeling you close to me, our surroundings (as in are we alone or are there people in ear shot) affect how much it can turn me on.  But the biggest turn on out of those is choice of words.  The kinkier, the dirtier, the naughtier the better.  But you could read me a computer programmer text book and make my dick hard if you get in close and use the right tone also.  You will just have to work a little harder at it but it could be done.

Jose: I think the dirty talk itself is the biggest turn to me. Ladies always are held classy so when a chick dirty talk; I am like boner! Especially when they ready to do what they are saying!!

Brian: A woman talking dirty is hot. Now I'm not a fan of the freaky: piss on Me or choke me talk. Get a woman with that right tone whispering "I wanna feel your hard cock deep inside of me" or "I wanna taste every bit of you" as the breath tickles my ear. Getting chills just thinking about. Actually I think now after thinking of this I better go take care of your second question now. Gotta run bye lol Lea's note: ROFL

My fearless, mostly permanent men, o' the hour are:

Jose Da Hood from Ellora's Cave and the Cave Chaos Radio. Coordinator of sex toy testing (email him or message him if you want to test items!)


Mr. Vile Woods blogger, Dominant, all around open guy. Check out his blog HERE. Much love to all the women who read Lea's blog.
Vile




Brian Nelson My newest addition. He works for Ellora's Cave as well, but I honestly don't have a clue what he does. :o)


Ramrod Director of Project Management for Ellora's Cave Publishing  If it plugs into a wall, battery operated, needs built, rebuilt, lifted, driven, fixed or figured out... that's me

If you have other questions you'd like to pose, ask your questions by leaving me a comment, shooting me an email or finding me on Facebook or Twitter. I'll make sure your questions are answered. Make sure you come back and visit every Thursday for another installment.

Damaged Characters and how I ache for them

I'm working on something new. Something so dark that I get goosebumps as I write it. My hero, Leo, is tortured, angry and guilt-ridden. The path that he must walk is filled with pitfalls and he just wants to jump in each one.

And, I'm loving it.

I didn't see myself as the tortured soul writer. Really I envisioned myself as a light and fun writer, but the more I dig into Leo's head and see the darkness there the more I'm intrigued. He's not light. Oh, no. He's slid off the path of light and is swimming in the darkness within.

I'm not sure I'll be able to go back to light characters after this, although I might need to after the journey Leo and I are on. I've cried more writing his story than I have with any other's. He's hurting so badly and is so torn inside. I ache for him and the near future, knowing there is so much more for him to endure before he can see some resolution. It's interesting to know that there is someone in my head so bent on destroying someone else. Might be scary if I wasn't writing.

So, what is this dark and evil story? Well, I can tell you that it's a story of super powers and lust. Will Leo find a HEA? Maybe... Ok, yes, but not for a while. He's tortured and needs to forgive himself before he can believe. He and his heroine need to come to grips with the process needed to release her and in the end they'll scar another woman to do it.

I'm not the only one being pulled into the shadows. Oh, no. Danica Avet is along for the ride as well. Check out her blog today to see what types of pain she's writing for her character.

In the end we will be releasing these books together, the beginnings of a series. What is it you ask? Well, you'll just have to wait and see...

For a taste of Leo and his anger here is an unedited snippet:
Red invaded his vision and his power spiked. Shattering glass and wood splintering filled his ears but all he could see was the image of his wife, perfectly still on filthy pavement. Shards ripped into his flesh, but the pain did nothing but enhance his despair. A dark place in his mind hissed with satisfaction as he tore his own skin open. Rivulets of hot blood coursed down his body, soaking into his shirt and pants.

Tattoo Tuesday- Brandon Hewitt

Please welcome Brandon Hewitt to Tattoo Tuesday!

I love this one! Super hero? Avenging angel? There's a book begging to be written!

Give me a four sentences that sum you up: what you do, who you are, where you've been...

My name is Brandon Hewitt and I am 33 years old. I am a full time firefighter/paramedic for a very busy fire dept. I am a husband of 13 years, and have two beautiful children. I enjoy traveling and have been to about every island in the Caribbean! I also am a national level men's physique competitor who loves to compete and hopefully obtain my IFBB Pro card soon.

What was your first tattoo? Does it have meaning to you?
My first tattoo does have a special meaning.  It is two open hands with a dove with its wings open.  It has a special date of the day when we lost our first baby early in my wife's first pregnancy.  It sounds deep, but it just symbolizes a very special event in our lives.



Do you have any that you regret getting?
I do have a tribal tattoo on my right shoulder I regret mainly because it has no meaning at all and just doesn't fit the rest of my ink.



Do you have more tats planned?
I don't really have anymore tattoos planned but I know I will get more in the future!  I am super busy right now with competing it is so hard to go sit in a parlor for hrs getting ink done.



Do you buy into tattoos being addictive once you start getting them?
I have never bought into tattoos being addictive.  I have gone years between tattoos and have never really felt addicted to getting my next one.



What's your life plans for the immediate future? Long-term?
My goal for the near future is to get my pro card in men's physique.  My long term goals are to be the best father and husband I can be to my family, and make sure I do everything in my power to make sure my children grow up to be successful and respectable people.



What's something about yourself that most people don't know?
Most people don't know that I love to dance!  I am trying to persuade my wife into taking dance lessons with me.



What do you watch when you've got down time?
Favorite t.v. shows are, anything on the History Channel, Pawn Stars, and any sport that you can think of I can watch!

Quick Questions:

Bottle or can?  Can

Chocolate or vanilla?  chocolate

Muscle car or motorcycle?  muscle car

Morning person or night-owl? morning person

Rollercoaster or bumper cars?  bumper cars





Where would you like people to find you? FB? Twitter? Instagram? Email? Website?
Twitter- @bfithewitt
facebook- https://www.facebook.com/brandon.hewitt.12
email- brandonhewitt2000@yahoo.com
instagram- @bhewitt46

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Demystifying the Male: Turning the Tables 2

Because the boys have been so good with the questions we've been asking I'm giving them another round of 

'Turn the Tables' on us women folk

This week's questions are below and some brave souls answered to the best of their abilities. 

Feel free to add your answers as comments... :)

Why are women willing to show boobs before showing their pussy?

A.M. Griffin- I don't know, but I'll show them to almost anyone - anywhere. Lea's Note: This is true... I was on boobie-watch all throughout Romanticon last year to make sure they weren't escaping. :P

Cassandra Carr- We could ask you the same thing. Why are you willing to show your chest and not your junk? I think it's more socially acceptable to show the bare torso than it is to get down to the naughty bits.

Anya Richards- Maybe because to us they're not that big a deal? Here in Canada, by law a woman can go topless if she wants, just like a man can. Also, I think for most of us ordinary women, showing your pussy indicates a certain level of intent. Just think of the "base" system society's been talking about for years...first base is kissing, second is feeling up the breasts, third base is copping a feel of the pussy and/or getting a blowjob, then you have going all the way. If I'm showing you my pussy, I've already decided to go all the way. If you only get to see my breasts, you're probably going to have to get yourself off.

Danica Avet- I've never really flashed my boobs anywhere, but I imagine it's because they're sort of there and easy to access. I imagine if you were a pussy flasher, you'd have to have a whole routine down like "lift this leg up, flap the skirt and try not to fall on your ass" kind of thing going on. Not to mention you don't really want that thing to dry out, you know? So you don't want to be flashing it all over the place. Lea Note: I'm imagining some sort of choreographed routine 

Lea's thoughts- I'm with everyone above. Would I willing flash my ta-ta's? Perhaps, but definitely wouldn't be a pussy flasher. Well, not to anyone other than the hubs, anyway. It all comes down to levels of intimacy. Whipping a boobie out isn't all that intimate. I mean, I've breastfed in public (I know, not the same... but the flesh is.) But, flashing the pussy? Definitely a level of 'wow, I must really like you' to it. LOL

How many times a day do women think about sex or having sex?

A.M. Griffin- More often than men think we do. I usually go real strong in the morning, but it tapers off by the time I get home from work.

Cassandra Carr- Normal women or erotic romance writers? Eh, doesn't matter. Women think about sex a lot. Women like sex. And most women seem to have an active fantasy life - moreso than men from what I've seen.

Anya Richards- I don't think I can answer for the average woman...I think about sex all the time because it's part of my job as well as because I like thinking about it.

Danica Avet- I can't speak about other women, but I think about it a lot. Of course, I think about it mostly in terms of my job. You know, the erotic romance author thing? My mind tends to lean towards the raunchy so I'm always trying to think of what position my characters will be in next. And I'm usually the star of those fantasies, so BONUS!

Lea's thoughts- Hmm. I think I need to ask some non-authors this question as well. Although, I've only been writing about 2 years and I KNOW I was a horn-dog before that. LOL Sex and fantasizing about it fill more of my day than I can even count. I might be remembering an experience from the day before, thinking through a position I want to try (or try again), etc. I spent a lot of time with sex on the brain. :) I think the better experiences you have the more likely you are to think about sex. If your sex life is vibrant (with or without a guy) then you'll spend a lot of time thinking about it.

Does and orgasm feel different or better having something inside your pussy (Dick, a toy, fingers, etc) vs nothing at all?

A.M. Griffin- It feels the same for me.

Cassandra Carr- I think this question is impossible to answer for anybody but myself because there are so many things that affect how an orgasm feels, depending on who you are. It also depends on several other factors - how turned on you are, what type of orgasm it is, etc. In general, I'd say an orgasm feels different having something there, but not necessarily better.

Anya Richards- For me a vaginal orgasm is very different from a clitoral one--stronger and often more intense, BUT when I'm having a clitoral orgasm I want to just enjoy it, so having other stuff going on (being fingered or having a toy in me) is just a distraction.

Danica Avet- This is another one of those "it depends" questions. Nothing at all can leave an empty feeling behind. Penetration and orgasm is... sometimes more pleasure than can you can bear. Especially if you have thrusting during penetration (had a boyfriend who liked to go still while I came and that was okay but not nearly as fun as the thrusting thing while coming). Thrusting and clit stimulation is like 'the fucking Earth is quaking this feels so good'.

Lea's thoughts- Well, you got quite a difference in answers here. I'm in agreement with Anya that the type of orgasm will dictate if I want or need something inside. But, I much prefer something (cock, dildo, what have you) inside even if it's not moving during an orgasms. All orgasms are great in their own rite, so I don't get upset if I'm clenching empty if you know what I mean. LOL I totally agree with Danica, though, on the clit and thrusting. Nothing better than a pounding with clit stim.

The lovely ladies who answered can be found on their own blogs or websites:

A.M. Griffin

Cassandra Carr

Anya Richards

Danica Avet

(and Me... but you've already found me. LOL)

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Tattoo Tuesday- Redmann Wright

Welcome

Redmann Wright

to Tattoo Tuesday

Give me a four sentences that sum you up: what you do, who you are, where you've been...
I’m a dedicated, hardworking, and a motivated being who’s passionate about health, and fitness.

What was your first tattoo? Does it have meaning to you?
I love Ink and motorcycles
I’m a Veteran on a mission to succeed in my next chapter in life.
A “Beast in the Gym”.

Do you have any ink that you regret getting? 
I have one; due to the guy not being a precise tattoo artist as well the ink faded fast.

Do you have more tats planned?
Yes indeed.

Do you buy into tattoos being addictive once you start getting them?
No just depends on what you like or the story your telling with them due to its expressiveness. 

What's your life plans for the immediate future? Long-term?
Become one of the best trainers out there, and someday a spokesperson 

What's something about yourself that most people don't know?
I survived a blast form an IED overseas, and the fitness world has been my coping mechanism.  Someday Ill speak on behalf of brain injured personnel to show them it’s a challenge but to keep going

If you were a superhero, what would your power be? Your weakness?
Too simply to BASE jump, or fly the earth, and travel as I pleased.  If I could do this on my own Id see as much of the world that captures my mind and thoughts.
Weakness- hmm no comment

Do you enjoy reading? Who's your fav author, or your fav type of book (suspense, mystery, biography, paranormal, etc)?
I use to love to read a lot at one point in my life but, due to my injury I’m not able to retain or concentrate well.

Quick Questions:

Bottle or can?  Bottle

Chocolate or vanilla? Chocolate

Muscle car or motorcycle?   Motorcycle

Morning person or night-owl?  Night-owl

Where would you like people to find you? FB? Twitter? Instagram? Email? Website? 
Facebook “Redmann’s Dungeon”  (Get It In)
Instagram: REDMANNW

Bodyspace - redmann 
Redmanns-way.com





Any other shout outs you'd like to do? Websites? FB pages? Just a simple thank you to the lord my family, and friends as well as those who have supported me so far in my journey to the top.

All images are copyrighted by Redmann Wright , Cincere Conceptz, or Willie Iam. They may not be used, reposted, shared or otherwise transferred without writing permissions from the photographer and the model.

Scavenger Hunt- Muffi Beyer

Blurb:

Rachel appears to have everything – a beautiful home on Malibu Beach, a successful career as a film director, and even an adorable four year old son. But Rachel’s world quickly implodes when her son dies in a tragic accident and she realizes all her success and money have left her alone and aching for the one thing she can’t seem to achieve—love.  

Reeling from the loss of her son and her ex’s indifference, Rachel throws herself into work and heads to Ireland to film her next project. Once there, she’s plagued with vivid dreams and a gnawing sense of déjà vu. But Rachel’s tough exterior really begins to crumble when she spots a statue in the town square and is shocked to realize it’s the exact replica of the man who has haunted her dreams for months—a handsome stranger for whom she feels a deep and mysterious attraction…

Will Rachel choose love even at the expense of her own sanity? Or is her love for the man of her dreams more real than anything here on earth…?

“Exile is a deeply romantic psychological thriller that will take you on a roller coaster exploration of grief, logic, and the transcendental nature of love…”

 Anya Richards, best selling author

BUY LINKS:

Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Exile-ebook/dp/B00CB4YJEG/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1365705228&sr=8-1&keywords=exile+muffi+beyer

Barnes & Noble: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/exile-muffi-beyer/1115098446?ean=2940016749693&itm=1&usri=exile+muffi+beyer

Smashwords: https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/305085

Kobo: http://www.kobobooks.com/ebook/Exile/book-EOu_tM-HkkOcZKuKVRNbIw/page1.html

BIO

Muffi Beyer grew up on the beaches of Malibu and has spent her career writing for Hollywood.  Her credits include Days of Our Lives, Santa Barbara, Nash Bridges, Doc, Sue Thomas FBeye, and My Friends Tiger and Pooh.  She has also produced several reality shows including The Real World, Road Rules, and Project Runway Allstars. She currently spends her days writing her next paranormal trilogy, hanging with her kids and husband, walking her overweight Italian Greyhound, and recording her dreams for future projects. This is her first novel.

Author Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Muffi-Beyer/549879745043402

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MuffiBeyer 

Website: http://www.MuffiBeyer.com

Super Duper Important- Scavenger Hunt Instructions:

There are 15 (fifteen) stops for this Scavenger Hunt. Each stop contains a picture/button with a letter on it. All 15 letters form a message or phrase that is associated with the book. The letters are scattered randomly to the hosts. You will need to collect all 15, unscramble them, and then enter the decoded message in the Rafflecopter for the ‘extra entries’. Good luck!

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Demystifying the Male- 23

1. If you're playing with a vibrating toy, where do you like it to touch you (nipples, cock, balls, taint) and where should something like that NEVER touch?

Brian- I honestly don't have answer for what I like for this question. I have used toys on girls but never on me. I think if she had a vibrator on her clit while I am pounding away the vibration on my balls would feel amazing or just staying inside while she has it on her clit. Lea Note: Me thinks Brian has some homework to do.

Vile- Wow touchy subject there Lea. Hmm something to think about. I can honestly say I have never used a toy on myself, not that its taboo or anything, just not my thing. If I were it would be on my balls, as a matter of fact I will let Arianna try that tonight.

It is hard in the D's lifestyle when it comes to a slave. There are many things such as using toys on their master as a sign of a weakness. No slave likes to be in control.

Ramrod- I like it used all over, tip, shaft, balls, and down close to my ass but not in.  You can use it while jacking me off or giving me head for some extra stimulation.  They can be used during sex, place it at the base of my shaft and it turns my dick into vibrator and every time I thrust in, it presses against your clit.  With a little coordination you can use two vibrators using one in your pussy and one out while have sex at the same time.  The trick is using a small egg vibrator in your pussy and use shallow thrusts.  The larger vibrator on the outside turns my dick into a vibrator and I get an extra tingle when the tip of my dick touches the vibrator in your pussy.

2. Does holding back your orgasm during sex/foreplay really make it stronger/better?

Brian- I do think it does make it more intense and it also allows more pleasure for the woman as well. Being able to just slowly stop and push it back then go back to work especially pullin' all the way out and thrusting back in. Now you can not hold it too long as the blue ball effect does come into play as well and that ain't no picnic lol. As I wrote in a past one that sucks and hurts bad.

Vile- Yes indeed holding back does make it better and it comes harder. More intense if the foreplay last for a while 30 to 45 minutes gets my balls to that boiling point. Also it depends on how into the play the female is.

Ramrod- Holding back can make for a stronger orgasm but you can only hold back so long before something has to give.  Think of it as a windup toy, you can wind it up fast or wind it up slow.  The more wound up, the more the power but if you over wind without letting go………Things start getting uncomfortable real quick.


3a. Can you tell if a woman is orgasming while you are inside her?

Brian- I can tell is she is cumming while either inside her or while my face is down there.

Vile- In my times and travel sometimes yes, and sometimes no. Women tend to fake orgasms during sex. I am not sure why. I guess it is so they do not hurt the male ego.  I would not think cumming every time wouldn't really matter. It is the closeness the two feel. Many women depend on vibrators when alone, and after a while just like anything else it becomes a habit, makes it harder to cum during sex.

Yes at times a man can feel a woman cum, but this happens when she is on top. Very few women cum when the male is on top. So ladies do not worry about the ego just have fun.

Ramrod- Yes I can feel you having an orgasm when inside your pussy.

3b. What does it feel like? (we describe it as milking, rhythmic pulsing, gripping, etc. are those acceptable wordings from a guys POV)

Brian- Now my point of view the way I can tell is when the build up for her gets so intense her legs start squeezing and obviously the moans or screaming is there. Now while inside her I feel the intense squeezing as it slowly builds up around my cock till I feel the wet running down my cock and balls. The tenseness slowly goes away till I go back to it lol.

Ramrod- It can feel like a gentle or hard squeeze depending on how powerful your orgasm is and how strong your kegel muscles are.  I would best describe it as a pulsing squeeze just inside your pussy lips but it is not a squeeze down the entire length of my dick.  As the orgasm starts the squeezing is harder and fades as it goes on.  It is not enough to bring me to an orgasm but will send me over the edge if I am close. \


My fearless, mostly permanent men, o' the hour are:

Jose Da Hood from Ellora's Cave and the Cave Chaos Radio. Coordinator of sex toy testing (email him or message him if you want to test items!)


Mr. Vile Woods blogger, Dominant, all around open guy. Check out his blog HERE. Much love to all the women who read Lea's blog.
Vile




Brian Nelson My newest addition. He works for Ellora's Cave as well, but I honestly don't have a clue what he does. :o)


Ramrod Director of Project Management for Ellora's Cave Publishing  If it plugs into a wall, battery operated, needs built, rebuilt, lifted, driven, fixed or figured out... that's me

If you have other questions you'd like to pose, ask your questions by leaving me a comment, shooting me an email or finding me on Facebook or Twitter. I'll make sure your questions are answered. Make sure you come back and visit every Thursday for another installment.