Tattoo Tuesday- Brandon Hewitt

Please welcome Brandon Hewitt to Tattoo Tuesday!

I love this one! Super hero? Avenging angel? There's a book begging to be written!

Give me a four sentences that sum you up: what you do, who you are, where you've been...

My name is Brandon Hewitt and I am 33 years old. I am a full time firefighter/paramedic for a very busy fire dept. I am a husband of 13 years, and have two beautiful children. I enjoy traveling and have been to about every island in the Caribbean! I also am a national level men's physique competitor who loves to compete and hopefully obtain my IFBB Pro card soon.

What was your first tattoo? Does it have meaning to you?
My first tattoo does have a special meaning.  It is two open hands with a dove with its wings open.  It has a special date of the day when we lost our first baby early in my wife's first pregnancy.  It sounds deep, but it just symbolizes a very special event in our lives.



Do you have any that you regret getting?
I do have a tribal tattoo on my right shoulder I regret mainly because it has no meaning at all and just doesn't fit the rest of my ink.



Do you have more tats planned?
I don't really have anymore tattoos planned but I know I will get more in the future!  I am super busy right now with competing it is so hard to go sit in a parlor for hrs getting ink done.



Do you buy into tattoos being addictive once you start getting them?
I have never bought into tattoos being addictive.  I have gone years between tattoos and have never really felt addicted to getting my next one.



What's your life plans for the immediate future? Long-term?
My goal for the near future is to get my pro card in men's physique.  My long term goals are to be the best father and husband I can be to my family, and make sure I do everything in my power to make sure my children grow up to be successful and respectable people.



What's something about yourself that most people don't know?
Most people don't know that I love to dance!  I am trying to persuade my wife into taking dance lessons with me.



What do you watch when you've got down time?
Favorite t.v. shows are, anything on the History Channel, Pawn Stars, and any sport that you can think of I can watch!

Quick Questions:

Bottle or can?  Can

Chocolate or vanilla?  chocolate

Muscle car or motorcycle?  muscle car

Morning person or night-owl? morning person

Rollercoaster or bumper cars?  bumper cars





Where would you like people to find you? FB? Twitter? Instagram? Email? Website?
Twitter- @bfithewitt
facebook- https://www.facebook.com/brandon.hewitt.12
email- brandonhewitt2000@yahoo.com
instagram- @bhewitt46

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Demystifying the Male: Turning the Tables 2

Because the boys have been so good with the questions we've been asking I'm giving them another round of 

'Turn the Tables' on us women folk

This week's questions are below and some brave souls answered to the best of their abilities. 

Feel free to add your answers as comments... :)

Why are women willing to show boobs before showing their pussy?

A.M. Griffin- I don't know, but I'll show them to almost anyone - anywhere. Lea's Note: This is true... I was on boobie-watch all throughout Romanticon last year to make sure they weren't escaping. :P

Cassandra Carr- We could ask you the same thing. Why are you willing to show your chest and not your junk? I think it's more socially acceptable to show the bare torso than it is to get down to the naughty bits.

Anya Richards- Maybe because to us they're not that big a deal? Here in Canada, by law a woman can go topless if she wants, just like a man can. Also, I think for most of us ordinary women, showing your pussy indicates a certain level of intent. Just think of the "base" system society's been talking about for years...first base is kissing, second is feeling up the breasts, third base is copping a feel of the pussy and/or getting a blowjob, then you have going all the way. If I'm showing you my pussy, I've already decided to go all the way. If you only get to see my breasts, you're probably going to have to get yourself off.

Danica Avet- I've never really flashed my boobs anywhere, but I imagine it's because they're sort of there and easy to access. I imagine if you were a pussy flasher, you'd have to have a whole routine down like "lift this leg up, flap the skirt and try not to fall on your ass" kind of thing going on. Not to mention you don't really want that thing to dry out, you know? So you don't want to be flashing it all over the place. Lea Note: I'm imagining some sort of choreographed routine 

Lea's thoughts- I'm with everyone above. Would I willing flash my ta-ta's? Perhaps, but definitely wouldn't be a pussy flasher. Well, not to anyone other than the hubs, anyway. It all comes down to levels of intimacy. Whipping a boobie out isn't all that intimate. I mean, I've breastfed in public (I know, not the same... but the flesh is.) But, flashing the pussy? Definitely a level of 'wow, I must really like you' to it. LOL

How many times a day do women think about sex or having sex?

A.M. Griffin- More often than men think we do. I usually go real strong in the morning, but it tapers off by the time I get home from work.

Cassandra Carr- Normal women or erotic romance writers? Eh, doesn't matter. Women think about sex a lot. Women like sex. And most women seem to have an active fantasy life - moreso than men from what I've seen.

Anya Richards- I don't think I can answer for the average woman...I think about sex all the time because it's part of my job as well as because I like thinking about it.

Danica Avet- I can't speak about other women, but I think about it a lot. Of course, I think about it mostly in terms of my job. You know, the erotic romance author thing? My mind tends to lean towards the raunchy so I'm always trying to think of what position my characters will be in next. And I'm usually the star of those fantasies, so BONUS!

Lea's thoughts- Hmm. I think I need to ask some non-authors this question as well. Although, I've only been writing about 2 years and I KNOW I was a horn-dog before that. LOL Sex and fantasizing about it fill more of my day than I can even count. I might be remembering an experience from the day before, thinking through a position I want to try (or try again), etc. I spent a lot of time with sex on the brain. :) I think the better experiences you have the more likely you are to think about sex. If your sex life is vibrant (with or without a guy) then you'll spend a lot of time thinking about it.

Does and orgasm feel different or better having something inside your pussy (Dick, a toy, fingers, etc) vs nothing at all?

A.M. Griffin- It feels the same for me.

Cassandra Carr- I think this question is impossible to answer for anybody but myself because there are so many things that affect how an orgasm feels, depending on who you are. It also depends on several other factors - how turned on you are, what type of orgasm it is, etc. In general, I'd say an orgasm feels different having something there, but not necessarily better.

Anya Richards- For me a vaginal orgasm is very different from a clitoral one--stronger and often more intense, BUT when I'm having a clitoral orgasm I want to just enjoy it, so having other stuff going on (being fingered or having a toy in me) is just a distraction.

Danica Avet- This is another one of those "it depends" questions. Nothing at all can leave an empty feeling behind. Penetration and orgasm is... sometimes more pleasure than can you can bear. Especially if you have thrusting during penetration (had a boyfriend who liked to go still while I came and that was okay but not nearly as fun as the thrusting thing while coming). Thrusting and clit stimulation is like 'the fucking Earth is quaking this feels so good'.

Lea's thoughts- Well, you got quite a difference in answers here. I'm in agreement with Anya that the type of orgasm will dictate if I want or need something inside. But, I much prefer something (cock, dildo, what have you) inside even if it's not moving during an orgasms. All orgasms are great in their own rite, so I don't get upset if I'm clenching empty if you know what I mean. LOL I totally agree with Danica, though, on the clit and thrusting. Nothing better than a pounding with clit stim.

The lovely ladies who answered can be found on their own blogs or websites:

A.M. Griffin

Cassandra Carr

Anya Richards

Danica Avet

(and Me... but you've already found me. LOL)

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Tattoo Tuesday- Redmann Wright

Welcome

Redmann Wright

to Tattoo Tuesday

Give me a four sentences that sum you up: what you do, who you are, where you've been...
I’m a dedicated, hardworking, and a motivated being who’s passionate about health, and fitness.

What was your first tattoo? Does it have meaning to you?
I love Ink and motorcycles
I’m a Veteran on a mission to succeed in my next chapter in life.
A “Beast in the Gym”.

Do you have any ink that you regret getting? 
I have one; due to the guy not being a precise tattoo artist as well the ink faded fast.

Do you have more tats planned?
Yes indeed.

Do you buy into tattoos being addictive once you start getting them?
No just depends on what you like or the story your telling with them due to its expressiveness. 

What's your life plans for the immediate future? Long-term?
Become one of the best trainers out there, and someday a spokesperson 

What's something about yourself that most people don't know?
I survived a blast form an IED overseas, and the fitness world has been my coping mechanism.  Someday Ill speak on behalf of brain injured personnel to show them it’s a challenge but to keep going

If you were a superhero, what would your power be? Your weakness?
Too simply to BASE jump, or fly the earth, and travel as I pleased.  If I could do this on my own Id see as much of the world that captures my mind and thoughts.
Weakness- hmm no comment

Do you enjoy reading? Who's your fav author, or your fav type of book (suspense, mystery, biography, paranormal, etc)?
I use to love to read a lot at one point in my life but, due to my injury I’m not able to retain or concentrate well.

Quick Questions:

Bottle or can?  Bottle

Chocolate or vanilla? Chocolate

Muscle car or motorcycle?   Motorcycle

Morning person or night-owl?  Night-owl

Where would you like people to find you? FB? Twitter? Instagram? Email? Website? 
Facebook “Redmann’s Dungeon”  (Get It In)
Instagram: REDMANNW

Bodyspace - redmann 
Redmanns-way.com





Any other shout outs you'd like to do? Websites? FB pages? Just a simple thank you to the lord my family, and friends as well as those who have supported me so far in my journey to the top.

All images are copyrighted by Redmann Wright , Cincere Conceptz, or Willie Iam. They may not be used, reposted, shared or otherwise transferred without writing permissions from the photographer and the model.

Scavenger Hunt- Muffi Beyer

Blurb:

Rachel appears to have everything – a beautiful home on Malibu Beach, a successful career as a film director, and even an adorable four year old son. But Rachel’s world quickly implodes when her son dies in a tragic accident and she realizes all her success and money have left her alone and aching for the one thing she can’t seem to achieve—love.  

Reeling from the loss of her son and her ex’s indifference, Rachel throws herself into work and heads to Ireland to film her next project. Once there, she’s plagued with vivid dreams and a gnawing sense of déjà vu. But Rachel’s tough exterior really begins to crumble when she spots a statue in the town square and is shocked to realize it’s the exact replica of the man who has haunted her dreams for months—a handsome stranger for whom she feels a deep and mysterious attraction…

Will Rachel choose love even at the expense of her own sanity? Or is her love for the man of her dreams more real than anything here on earth…?

“Exile is a deeply romantic psychological thriller that will take you on a roller coaster exploration of grief, logic, and the transcendental nature of love…”

 Anya Richards, best selling author

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BIO

Muffi Beyer grew up on the beaches of Malibu and has spent her career writing for Hollywood.  Her credits include Days of Our Lives, Santa Barbara, Nash Bridges, Doc, Sue Thomas FBeye, and My Friends Tiger and Pooh.  She has also produced several reality shows including The Real World, Road Rules, and Project Runway Allstars. She currently spends her days writing her next paranormal trilogy, hanging with her kids and husband, walking her overweight Italian Greyhound, and recording her dreams for future projects. This is her first novel.

Author Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Muffi-Beyer/549879745043402

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MuffiBeyer 

Website: http://www.MuffiBeyer.com

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Demystifying the Male- 23

1. If you're playing with a vibrating toy, where do you like it to touch you (nipples, cock, balls, taint) and where should something like that NEVER touch?

Brian- I honestly don't have answer for what I like for this question. I have used toys on girls but never on me. I think if she had a vibrator on her clit while I am pounding away the vibration on my balls would feel amazing or just staying inside while she has it on her clit. Lea Note: Me thinks Brian has some homework to do.

Vile- Wow touchy subject there Lea. Hmm something to think about. I can honestly say I have never used a toy on myself, not that its taboo or anything, just not my thing. If I were it would be on my balls, as a matter of fact I will let Arianna try that tonight.

It is hard in the D's lifestyle when it comes to a slave. There are many things such as using toys on their master as a sign of a weakness. No slave likes to be in control.

Ramrod- I like it used all over, tip, shaft, balls, and down close to my ass but not in.  You can use it while jacking me off or giving me head for some extra stimulation.  They can be used during sex, place it at the base of my shaft and it turns my dick into vibrator and every time I thrust in, it presses against your clit.  With a little coordination you can use two vibrators using one in your pussy and one out while have sex at the same time.  The trick is using a small egg vibrator in your pussy and use shallow thrusts.  The larger vibrator on the outside turns my dick into a vibrator and I get an extra tingle when the tip of my dick touches the vibrator in your pussy.

2. Does holding back your orgasm during sex/foreplay really make it stronger/better?

Brian- I do think it does make it more intense and it also allows more pleasure for the woman as well. Being able to just slowly stop and push it back then go back to work especially pullin' all the way out and thrusting back in. Now you can not hold it too long as the blue ball effect does come into play as well and that ain't no picnic lol. As I wrote in a past one that sucks and hurts bad.

Vile- Yes indeed holding back does make it better and it comes harder. More intense if the foreplay last for a while 30 to 45 minutes gets my balls to that boiling point. Also it depends on how into the play the female is.

Ramrod- Holding back can make for a stronger orgasm but you can only hold back so long before something has to give.  Think of it as a windup toy, you can wind it up fast or wind it up slow.  The more wound up, the more the power but if you over wind without letting go………Things start getting uncomfortable real quick.


3a. Can you tell if a woman is orgasming while you are inside her?

Brian- I can tell is she is cumming while either inside her or while my face is down there.

Vile- In my times and travel sometimes yes, and sometimes no. Women tend to fake orgasms during sex. I am not sure why. I guess it is so they do not hurt the male ego.  I would not think cumming every time wouldn't really matter. It is the closeness the two feel. Many women depend on vibrators when alone, and after a while just like anything else it becomes a habit, makes it harder to cum during sex.

Yes at times a man can feel a woman cum, but this happens when she is on top. Very few women cum when the male is on top. So ladies do not worry about the ego just have fun.

Ramrod- Yes I can feel you having an orgasm when inside your pussy.

3b. What does it feel like? (we describe it as milking, rhythmic pulsing, gripping, etc. are those acceptable wordings from a guys POV)

Brian- Now my point of view the way I can tell is when the build up for her gets so intense her legs start squeezing and obviously the moans or screaming is there. Now while inside her I feel the intense squeezing as it slowly builds up around my cock till I feel the wet running down my cock and balls. The tenseness slowly goes away till I go back to it lol.

Ramrod- It can feel like a gentle or hard squeeze depending on how powerful your orgasm is and how strong your kegel muscles are.  I would best describe it as a pulsing squeeze just inside your pussy lips but it is not a squeeze down the entire length of my dick.  As the orgasm starts the squeezing is harder and fades as it goes on.  It is not enough to bring me to an orgasm but will send me over the edge if I am close. \


My fearless, mostly permanent men, o' the hour are:

Jose Da Hood from Ellora's Cave and the Cave Chaos Radio. Coordinator of sex toy testing (email him or message him if you want to test items!)


Mr. Vile Woods blogger, Dominant, all around open guy. Check out his blog HERE. Much love to all the women who read Lea's blog.
Vile




Brian Nelson My newest addition. He works for Ellora's Cave as well, but I honestly don't have a clue what he does. :o)


Ramrod Director of Project Management for Ellora's Cave Publishing  If it plugs into a wall, battery operated, needs built, rebuilt, lifted, driven, fixed or figured out... that's me

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